After giving my life to Christ as a Mommy, I began the process of trying to come to some sort of peace about this particular holiday. I know I'm not alone in this. I probably would have just turned off the lights and played games with my kids in our family room like many other families have chosen to do; however, my husband was not on board with the withdrawal tactic so I had to come up with some sort of compromise. What worked for us was a progression of options. First, we tossed out all scary characters. You could be any kind of animal, super hero, role model, etc. so there were lots was options still available. If there was a local church hosting a fall festival we attended there for the evening. I prefer that choice over trick-or-treating (the other possibility) because it allowed my kids to both see other personalities as well as be seen, amounted to less candy to bring home, and the cast of masqueraders was communally of a milder nature. No gore, no gross, no goblins. I'm happy and so are my kids.
Bottom line for us was the fun of dressing up. In fact, at one point my oldest boys felt too cool for Halloween. I went out into the darkness of our neighborhood night with their younger brother that year while they stayed home to hand out candy. A year or so later, their interest in Japanese anime and the chance to play their favorite characters proved too much. Out the three went in orange and blue costumes with their hair gelled into crazy spikes and sprayed silver and gold. They had a blast!
My girls have a public speaking club they participate in this year, and this week they had to dress up as a favorite author, book or movie character, or historical person. They whipped up their costumes in a few hours before we had to leave. I thought they looked great, don't you? Can you guess who this is sitting outside prior to Gavel Club?
The Mad Hatter and Princess Leia
Have a safe, family-fun Halloween!